In , When Harry Met Sally posed a question that other pop-cultural entities have been trying to answer ever since: Can straight men and women really be close friends without their partnership turning into something else? According to The Office , no. According to Lost in Translation , yes. According to Friends … well, sometimes no and sometimes yes. Screenwriters have been preoccupied with this question for a long time, and according to a new study published in the Journal of Relationships Research , the question is also likely to be on the minds of people whose romantic partners have best friends of the opposite sex.
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As we get older, relationships between men and women become more complicated. Feelings can get involved. Side note. After spending far too many hours lurking on relationship subreddits, here is a piece of straightforward advice to remember: just because she is your friend, you are not entitled to a romantic relationship. There are differences between male and female friendships you should know, but to think that it is impossible to have opposite sex friendships is just a ridiculous notion.
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Friendships can add good and positive influences to our lives and to our marriages. But be informed: opposite sex friendships will destroy your marriage if it goes to far, too close and unchecked. However, it can be a challenge to balance the intimacy of our marriages with the other important friendships in our lives. This is especially true if we have close friends of the opposite gender.