Woman-on-top or 'Cowgirl', or 'The Rider' is a classic sex position if you are a woman or have a vagina, and are sleeping with someone with a penis or someone wearing a strap-on, TBH. But, if you're an over-thinker like me this is amplified tenfold when naked and having sex , it's hard to know exactly what to do when you're up there. Obvs, do what feels good for you. But remember, the best sex happens when both partners are having the time of their lives. Here, some guys on Reddit give their tips for getting woman-on-top sex just right. It gets me so turned on to see her take command of her own orgasmic destiny.
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But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist , to help us out with the details. No gender, sexual orientation, or question is off-limits, and all questions remain anonymous. Q: I read your article about how to move during sex , but I need some serious help with being on top.
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Much as we might all want to channel our inner cowgirl, sometimes it's just easier said than done. Being on top during sex puts you in a vulnerable position and it can be intimidating and tricky to master for some. If you're having trouble feeling confident when you're on top during sex, don't worry! But there are tons of helpful tricks and tips to mastering how to do woman-on-top.
When your partner of any gender! If your partner has a vulva, they're more likely to orgasm, too, since they can control exactly where and how hard you hit that region of the internal clitoris known as the G-spot. You should also change up exactly how your partner rides you—because even though cowgirl is a gift from the gods, it will grow stale if you do it every time.