Skip navigation! Story from Sex Tips. Sophie Saint Thomas. Butt sex can be incredible — but anal sex demands respect. As psychologist David Ley, PhD, once told Refinery29 : "If you try to do it the way most porn does, it will be like learning to shoot from watching Steven Seagal movies: Somebody will get hurt.
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You know that iconic moment when Oprah gave away a car to everyone in the audience? And you get to try anal! Sound crazy? Or actually like Crocs! And there's a reason: It feels good. It can even be orgasmic.
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If it feels good, anything goes! Cisgender men and people assigned male at birth have a prostate , so in these cases a butt orgasm results from stimulating the prostate. You can stimulate the P-spot through the perineum, which is the runway of skin between the balls and the anus. This is how anal orgasms work for cisgender women and people assigned female at birth. Anal penetration indirectly stimulates the A-spot in the vagina.
Good news: Anal sex is becoming less and less taboo. Anal sex provides a different kind of fullness and, with the right partner, can be really, truly intimate especially if it's a first for both of you. Of course, not every woman is going to be into anal I mean, is any sex act a universal turn-on? But many women are here for it, and some can even have full-on anal orgasms.